The Best Couple Toys to Heighten Intimacy

Sex toys for couples can enhance intimacy and offer new avenues of pleasure. From toys that stimulate the clit penis, and G-spot to ones specifically designed for the LGBTQIA+ community in mind, there are plenty of options for everyone.

When selecting a toy for couples ensure that it is in sync with your sensual and physical preferences. Also, pair it with the right lubricant.

1. Strap-on dildos

A dildo with a strap-on strap is an excellent way partners can explore penetrative play together. This set-up is made up of a harness that fits over the wearer’s pelvis and a dildo that has an open bottom which is threaded through the O-ring. The combination of dildos and O-rings can give a firm grip on the pelvic muscles. This can be a very satisfying experience for some. The dildo's head also usually has a sharp curve to stimulate the g spot for women or the prostate area for men. Some harnesses have a textured bottom to increase friction and stimulate when you are piercing. This SpareParts harness is one of them. Some strap-ons even have pockets that can be fitted with a one-touch power bullet style vibrator to make the partner feel happy (just ensure that you're using a sufficient amount of lube, since silicone dildos can't be used with lubes containing silicone).

It's worth giving it a shot if both of you are looking for an erotic pervasive grind. It's not easy to find the right dildo for your needs.

For more guidance you can ask a certified sexualologist to show you how to use the toy with your partner prior to you purchase. You might also ask a staff member at an sex shop for recommendations. If you're unable to visit a shop review, you can find them on the website of the toy manufacturer or online.

Another way to maximize the fun of the strap-on is to choose one with an remote control. This allows the user to control what the toy does by pressing an arrow and is especially enjoyable for couples.

2. Bouncing dildos

The best bouncing dildos combine the g-spot sensation of a ball with a vibrating toy called a cock. This toy for hands-free play lets you take pleasure in both pleasure points at the same time while leaving your hands free for other sexually-oriented toys. It's a great option for sexy gender-related play.

These dildos have an element that holds the shaft securely while you bounce. The base is usually composed of silicone to give it a smooth and silky feel. Most have a hole at the end to allow for insertion. They're also compatible with lubricants that are safe for body. These toys are ideal for beginners who do not want to worry about losing control.

Some bouncing dildos feature suction cups on the shaft. These dildos are more subtle with flat bases and a concave-shaped shape to create a vacuum. This is perfect for couples who want to test out sexual stimulation with a partner without having to worry about losing control or dropping the toy on carpet or shower tile.

Another alternative is a dildo using a weighted ball. They are more common among men's toys but some companies also make these for women. Two examples are Fun Factory's Stronic G ($170 starting price) and B Vibe's Snug Plug (125 dollars).

Couples who want to enjoy the clitoral pleasure of hands-free will love a dildo which is affixed to the wall. Many men imagine women riding one of these dildos in their wild sexual fantasies, and they're also a great way to experience the G-spot sensations of oral sexual stimulation.

3. Bed restraints

Transform your bed into a bondage area by using this complete restraint kit. It's portable and could be utilized in hotels for quick bonding sessions. It is suitable for any mattress and is easy to set up. It features a pair of comfortable, adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs with four straps to restrain you. They are connected to a single connector strap that can be tucked under the mattress. The tethers made of neoprene stretch over your partner to secure them in place. Place the cuffs at the head and foot of the bed or even side-to-side to create a tempting spread-out pose. The six points of connection let you add collars, cuffs and more to create your ideal setup.

4. Vibrating ring

This ring that vibrates is ideal for couples who like internal stimulation. It comes with a built-in arm and the cock ring which vibrates against the perineum. The silicone ring is made of a stretchy material that can be placed over the shaft. It has five vibration settings. The ring is waterproof to play in the shower or bath.

For added gratification, slip this ring onto an erect penis, with the bump of the cock ring facing forward during sexual sex. The toy vibrates as the bump is pressed against clitoral ridges, intensifying your partner's pleasure. The toy was made to be used in sex with a partner, but can also be used by itself for a sexy experience. It can also be used with a blowjob or handjobs to add a playful sensation to oral and vaginal sexual sex.

This toy comes with an angled vibrator as well as the tactile stimulator. It is perfect for both women and men. It's designed to fit various positions and comes with an adorable travel case. To add a bit of sexiness to the ride, lubricate it with a safe toy lubricant.


The right couples' sex toys for your relationship will depend on your sexual preferences, and your level of comfort. If you're not sure what kind of stimulation to choose communicating with your partner can determine the best choice. Whether you choose a rabbit-style toy or a sensual cock ring, we hope our best toys for couples will help you discover a new level of intimacy in your relationship. Good luck! And remember, it is always recommended to wear a condom while using any sex toy. The Good Housekeeping Institute panel of 120 test subjects tested a range of vibrators on the market to determine which one is best for you and your partner.

5. Lubricant

Certain types of lubricants are better than others. Sex toys that work well with lubricant are designed specifically for couples and can increase your enjoyment of orgasms or even playing time. A sex toy designed for couples is often aimed at the clit, prostate, or G-spot. Some even double as oral masturbators.

A sex toy for couples is an excellent way to spice up your relationship and may help you get out of your routine to rekindle the fire. It is crucial to remember that a sex-toy for couples isn't a substitute for your partner.

There are plenty of fun and exciting sex toys couples can choose from. From dildos and vibrators, to butt plugs and wearable pleasure rings there's bound to be a toy that will rock your worlds. To ensure that your play is safe make sure you choose toys made of body-safe materials such as glass, silicone, and stainless steel.

If you're a novice to the world of sexual toys, we suggest that you start with something easy and small, like bullets. These toys aren't intimidating, cute and can be used for sex, playtime or even foreplay. We recommend a dildo by New York Toy Collective for those who wish to get a little more involved. They are posable, made of latex and feature a unique G-spot head.

If you're looking for a full-on assault on your sexy toy, upgrade to a harness designed to match it. SpareParts harness is our top choice. It utilizes velcro in place of the buckles, which can move and comes in a variety of sizes and skin tones.